~What are These Things?~

 

What are the things everyone always experiences, but never really define? I just had a moment where I wanted to think about it, and write them down.

 

What is friendship?

Friendship is the bond that you have with someone else. Something that is irreplaceable by just anyone. Someone who knows you inside and out, and who you can trust with anything, even if you think you shouldn't. You tell them everything, the things you want, and don't. The things you love and what you regret. Your dreams, goals and ambitions. Someone you can always turn too, when things get too hard, or just when you fancy a talk. Someone who will understand you to the best extent possible, and who'll bail you out of trouble, or sometimes, even be in the trouble with you. The reason you got in the trouble? You and your friend were just being you. Together nothing can come between you, but if something were too, you don't let it go, you keep working at it until you think things are as great as they ever were. That's what I think of friendship.

What is love?

Love is that feeling where, nothing seems the same any more. That everything changes when you meet that one person who makes you feel complete, and who holds you to the planet, and gives you reason. When you see them you're overcome by happiness, and nervousness, and excitement, all rolled into one large, uncontrollable feeling. You love them irrevocably and your biggest fear would be losing them. Bubtterflies live in your stomach, and when you hug them, all you feel is their warmth against your own body, and nothing else around you even matters any more. It's just you two. They'd never leave you, but they know when to let you go. They never lie to you, and they never hurt you. They'll know you down to your core, and love you for your flaws, and your personality, and every trait you possess. Nothing seems like it works when you're not with them, and no one else can make you as happy as they do.

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What is hate?

In my own experience, hate is normally driven by love. You can't hate someone unless you've loved them, and you don't know hate until you've loved. You look at them and you get a sinking feeling of regret and guilt and loss. Everyone seems to think when you hate someone you just want to punch them, and kick them, but in my eyes, all you want to do when you hate someone is ask  "why?". Why do you hate them? Why do they hate you? Also ask yourself what went wrong. I've hated. I do hate. But I love. So hate seems pointless and a waste. Love is easier, and nicer. Hate makes you angry, and upset, and alone. Don't hate.