Friday, October 15, 2010

Confidence


Where do i begin? First of all, the past year, as i said before i got into so many fights with people, they judged me, and i had a very low self-esteem. And honestly, it was rough. Having no self-confidence can really bring you down. But what i've learned, you should always stand up for yourself. Show people that your more than what they think you are, show them and prove them wrong. 
YOUR BEAUTIFUL.
No matter what size you are, what race, just remember that your beautiful, no matter what people say about you, you shouldn't care. Because if you let what people say get to you, you will break down. Be yourself, thats all i can say. Don't pretend to be something your not and don't be ashamed of who you are. Show everyone the real you.

I think in these past couple of months, things changed. i AM more self confident, and i'm sure of myself. Being self confident dosen't mean your bragging about yourself. No, it means that you are PROUD of who you are, and you can never let anything or anyone break that wall of confidence of yours. 
 
You know to be honest, last year, i would never have had enough guts to post something like this, it would be on one of my last things to do list. Why? Because i had No self confidence what so ever. i'd let anything bring me down, and i actually cared about what people said about me. Showing people you care when they criticize you puts a huge smile on their faces. And you wouldn't want to let them know your affected. So when your self confident, you will actually laugh at what they're saying. Well its what i do now, people think i still care about what they say about me, but the truth is, i don't. I don't let it get to me.
Every night, look in the mirror, and say ' i am a self confident woman '. Do that EVERY NIGHT, and i promise you, you will feel better about yourself. 
 
BE HAPPY
No Matter what is going on in your life, BE HAPPY. Thank god that your not in a worse situation, thank god that he has put you in a situation like this so you can learn from your mistakes. Thank god that he has made you into what you are.


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